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When it comes to bodily pains, having a sore vagina ranks right up there with having your wisdom teeth pulled. So if an intense romp has you waddling let's be real, that's the accurate and extremely unsexy way to describe ityou should probably have a conversation with your partner or your gynecologist or both, TBH. That said, sometimes sex does hurt and it results in an comfortably sore vagina.
But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapistto help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous.
But they exist, and with a little awareness and attention, you can get the Os you deserve, from the fireworks-on-display kind to the calm oh-my-gods. When you find yourself missing out on the Big O, there are three likely culprits: expectations, communication, and method. And alongside all of that, experimenting is required. The clitoris is a small organ with a lot of nerve endings that peeks out from the tiptop of the vulva, is often covered by a hood, and extends down the inside of the labia.
Louis CK has a bit on how men complain about women's "neediness" after sex:. The man just wants to lay there and be cool and the woman wants to cuddle. You did absolutely nothing.
But, despite the bizarre advice you might have seen online, do NOT give in to the temptation to use it down there! It seems various blogs and online forums suggest women use Vicks VapoRub on their vaginas to boost your sex life, soothe itching, clean your intimate areas and maintain odour pleasant down there. Any gynaecologist would tell you the only way you should be cleaning your vagina is by using warm water, with a mild soap at most.
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This may involve female-to-female genital contact or a female rubbing her vulva against her partner's thigh, stomach, buttocks, arm, or other body part excluding the mouth. The term tribadism is usually used in the context of lesbian sexand originally encompassed societal beliefs about women's capability of being penetrative sexual partners. It may also involve vaginal penetration by use of the fingersa dildo or double penetration dildo  or refer to a masturbation technique in which a woman rubs her vulva against an inanimate object such as a bolster to achieve orgasm.
By contrast, if you switch things up, you may find that her experience is more satisfying, since delaying her orgasm can make it stronger, says Brandon. So save your signature skills for the grand finale and experiment with these 16 ways to touch her vagina. When it comes to G-spot stimulation, most guys know one classic technique: Insert a finger inside her vagina, palm up, and use a come-hither movement to stimulate her.